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Tips to Enhance your Attraction & Boost your Passion

As incredible as it may sound, the shape of your residence and the location of the room that you occupy the most, impact your personality, your looks and even your passion.

All is explained in the BaGua, the arrangement of eight (Ba) trigrams (Gua) that results from the interaction between yin and yang and represents everything that exists, including you.

The BaGua is a mathematical model that calculates the quality of vital energy Qi. If you understand the BaGua you are able to deduce what happens in a property due to that energy.

The first step to do that is to superimpose the BaGua on the property, the second step is to calculate the Gua of the occupant(s) and the third step is to know the characteristics of each Gua and apply them accordingly. 

First Step

To superimpose the BaGua on your property, lay over its floor plan a 3x3 grid to obtain eight equally sized boxes on the sides and one in the center. Label each box on the sides with a cardinal or ordinal compass direction as follows: go to the center of the property, hold the compass in your hands pointing towards any direction, stay still until the compass stops moving, mark that direction on the corresponding box and then label the other seven boxes accordingly. Each box is considered a sector and houses a Gua.

Second Step

To calculate your Gua (Life Star) go to my BaZi Calculator, input your date of birth (no need to input your time of birth) and plot your BaZi chart. Your Gua comes out under your name, on the top right side of the page. Males identified with Gua 5 are treated as Gua 2. Females identified with Gua 5 are treated as Gua 8.

Third Step

The characteristics of each Gua are endless. Table 1 shows some basic ones, which are very easy to apply.

Table 1 - The BaGua

Gua #

Name

Location

Element

Color

Kinship

Associations

1

Kan

North

Water

Black, blue

Teenage boy

Wisdom, kidney, reproductive power

2

Kun

Southwest

Earth

Yellow

Mature female

Assets, abdomen, stomach, kindness

3

Zhen

East

Wood

Green

Oldest boy

Action, movement, foot, liver

4

Xun

Southeast

Wood

Green

Oldest girl

Knowledge, culture, hips, butt

6

Qian

Northwest

Metal

White, silver, gold

Mature male

Leadership, head, brain

7

Dui

West

Metal

White, silver, gold

Youngest girl

Communication, mouth, tongue, throat

8

Gen

Northeast

Earth

Yellow

Youngest boy

Stability, self-cultivation, back bone, finger toes

9

Li

South

Fire

Red

Teenage girl

Passion, happiness, heart, eyes

 

With the information above let's explore some tips to improve your love and passion as well as your looks:

If you are a female and your Gua is:

3 or 4, make sure you have in your place at least one of the sectors that are metal (NW and West), otherwise it is hard for a male partner to come into your life.

9, make sure the north sector is part of your place, otherwise it is hard for a male partner to come into your life.

2 or 8, make sure you have in your place at least one of the sectors that are wood (east and SE), otherwise it is hard for a male partner to come into your life.

6 or 7, make sure the south sector is part of your place, otherwise it is hard for a male partner to come into your life.

1, make sure you have in your place at least one of the sectors that are earth (NE and SW), otherwise it is hard for a male partner to come into your life.

If you are a male and your Gua is:

3 or 4, make sure you have in your place at least one of the sectors that are earth (NE and SW), otherwise it is hard for a female partner to come into your life.

9, make sure you have in your place at least one of the sectors that are metal (NW and West), otherwise it is hard for a female partner to come into your life.

2 or 8, make sure the north sector is part of your place, otherwise it is hard for a female partner to come into your life.

6 or 7, make sure you have in your place at least one of the sectors that are wood (east and SE), otherwise it is hard for a female partner to come into your life.

1, make sure the south sector is part of your place, otherwise it is hard for a female partner to come into your life.

On top of the sector(s) that should be part of your residence according to the previous recommendations:

  • If you are looking for a formal male partner make sure your residence is not missing the northwest, otherwise you won't find a partner or the relationship won't last because the location of the adult male figure doesn't exist in your place.
  • If you are looking for a formal female partner, make sure your residence is not missing the southwest, otherwise you won't find a partner or the relationship won't last because the location of the adult female figure doesn't exist in your place.

Regardless of your Gua and gender:

  • If you want to feel desire for your significant other, make sure your residence is not missing the north sector, which empowers all reproduction for males and females. North missing implies very low desire.
  • Make sure the south sector is part of your residence because love and desire are better with passion and fire in the south is the sector that fuels it. South is also associated with happiness so it should really be part of your place.

To increase your attraction factor:

Activate your peach-blossom location. Go to my BaZi Calculator, input your date of birth (no need to input your time of birth) and plot your BaZi chart. Your peach blossom location comes out as part of the BaZi Analysis on the top right side of the page. Place in that sector a bucket of water with a couple of flowers. You may avoid the flowers and just leave the water in order to expose more water surface to the energy Qi that rides on the air. For "Zi" the sector is north, for "Wu" the sector is south, for "Mao" the sector is east and for "You" the sector is west. Keep the water there for two weeks. 

To look prettier:

  • For females stay in the west that is the sector associated with young pretty girls. If staying there is not possible at least keep the sector unobstructed, make it look nice and enhance it with metal objects.
  • For males stay in the northeast that is the sector associated with young handsome boys. If staying there is not possible at least keep the sector unobstructed.
  • Fat tends to accumulate on the hips and on the belly, avoid obstructions on the southeast and the southwest respectively, let the energy Qi flow freely in those sectors to diminish the risk of getting big.

Hope you enjoyed reading these tips :). There are many feng shui formulas and applications, learn about them, implement them and experience their benefits through a feng shui consultation..

 

Some People Visit the Psychologist, I Practice Qigong

 

Some people visit the psychologist, I prefer to practice Qigong.

If you still don’t know what Qigong is, it is a Chinese practice that involves movement, breathing, visualization and sound. It helps with physical and mental health, including reducing stress and anxiety, improving balance and flexibility, and boosting the immune system. If you want to learn more or want to give it a try, I invite you to start HERE.

On the other hand, going to a psychologist is a form of therapy that involves talking to a trained professional about your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. This can help people with a wide range of mental health conditions, but at the end, the individuals must overcome their conditions, the psychologist can’t do it for them.

Now a days more a more people seek the support of a psychologist, I believe it is because now a days life is more complicated, the world is more chaotic and people need more than ever a way to release their fears and worries.

Both qigong and going to a psychologist rely on people’s power to heal from their conditions but only Qigong empowers them with the tools to permanently keep those conditions under control. This is one of the main reasons why I prefer to practice Qigong for my own mental and emotional health. Not to mention that Qigong also allows me to improve my physical health.

I’m not recommending leaving your psychologist, but I assure you that combining your psychologist visits with the practice of qigong will take your mental, emotional, and physical health to another level. And the best part is that you will have the tools to keep them there or bringing them back to that level at any time without anybody’s help.